the drama of my life
“Nothing stays the same”, “The only constant thing in this world is change.” I’m sure you’ve heard about these two famous lines before and I know you have your own story you can share with regards to these things. But for now, I want to share mine. There’s always in one person’s life when we have to cope up and deal with the changes we encounter. Merielle, who’s my best friend since high school never stop reminding me not to fret about these changes.
Changes are inevitable. You can’t stop things from changing. There are two kinds of change, the good change and the bad change. The only distinction between the two is your initial reaction to the that change. But I’m sure both of them will somehow lead to the betterment of one’s life. I’m certain that most of us like things to stay the way they are. It’s always hard for us to compromise. We prefer to live the life we are used, to rather than to cope up with new things. But now,,, what the heck? I don’t care anymore!!! I’m not afraid of changes and I’m happy with the feelings it bring me.
You must be wondering what I’m trying to imply. Nope! I’m not making a fool of you by reading this stupid things I’m writing, and I’m not trying to waste your precious time.
Ka-dramahan ko ito…
I use to ask God and myself why does things change. Bakit pa? Okey lang nman ako dito eh,, kontento nman ako sa buhay ko ngayon,,, wala nman akong nasasaktan,,, masaya nman lahat, diba??? Hay,,, ka-immaturan ko tlga. That’s what I am before, imprudent and foolish about how things work. Not yet abreast of the real world. But now, the point turns and I come to realize the good things that change has done to me. Reading my past entries, you can see bitter thoughts running to and fro my head. Entries that reflect how hard it is for me to live my life without him. Gosh,,, nasaktan nya tlga ako. But that’s the reason why I am happy right now. The change that leads to the betterment of my life.
According to Maslow’s all-famous hierarchy of needs, after we’ve come to fulfill our physiological (basic – food, water, clothing, etc.) needs, safety and security needs, love and belongingness needs, and self-esteem needs, the only thing that were waiting for is the point where we are able to reach the highest potential our life can ever achieve… SELF-REALIZATION. I’m not saying that I am finally at that point in time, but the feeling I’m having is just like the feeling of being there.
Some things are meant to happen…
The thing that happened between my ex-boyfriend and I were written in the stars. God intends to make me suffer, in order for me to learn something from him. I may have cried so many tears, but those tears are worthy not for him, but for the result that had made me s stronger individual. I know you’re wondering what happen that made me so inspired to write... What is it that Indira realized?
Its not important to know the reason why I am writing now,,, hindi na kailangan yon. (Loud sigh…) Ang sarap ng feeling! Ang gaan-gaan ng loob ko. After seeing Nico again and after hearing news about his life right now, bigla na lang gumaan ang loob ko. Hindi ko nga alam kung baket eh,,, siguro dahil mei napatunayan ako.
The process of letting go…
My advice to everyone, (1) Never stop thinking about that person, even if it’s tormenting every part of you. Because when you don’t, that’s the time your ghost from the past comes hunting you again. Aba,,, masakit ata yan! That happens to me most of the time, and the end-product,,, bucket of tears falling from my eyes. This is what I call AFTERSHOCK. Just when you thought you’ve moved on,,, malalaman mo na lang na hindi pa pala. (2) Talk to someone or at least find some way to release the anger in you. Why do we have to do that? Simply to express our feelings. There are several ways to express what it is that’s hurting you or just holding you back. You can express it through the traditional way of writing or you can release it using the modern way like drinking (alcohol ah..). I’m not advising you to get late or become drunk, ok. Always’ remember: IN MODERATION. (3) Make-over. I’m not just talking about the superficial makeover where you have to spend so much money from your allowance, but also the spiritual makeover. This is what I call STARTING OVER. (4) Divert your attention. Make yourself busy by doing things you usually enjoy. Be the fun-loving girl that you are. It will not only make you happy but it will also make you look younger and prettier.
Life is a journey… Learn to move on. It’s not the end of the world. ‘Till next time.
Changes are inevitable. You can’t stop things from changing. There are two kinds of change, the good change and the bad change. The only distinction between the two is your initial reaction to the that change. But I’m sure both of them will somehow lead to the betterment of one’s life. I’m certain that most of us like things to stay the way they are. It’s always hard for us to compromise. We prefer to live the life we are used, to rather than to cope up with new things. But now,,, what the heck? I don’t care anymore!!! I’m not afraid of changes and I’m happy with the feelings it bring me.
You must be wondering what I’m trying to imply. Nope! I’m not making a fool of you by reading this stupid things I’m writing, and I’m not trying to waste your precious time.
Ka-dramahan ko ito…
I use to ask God and myself why does things change. Bakit pa? Okey lang nman ako dito eh,, kontento nman ako sa buhay ko ngayon,,, wala nman akong nasasaktan,,, masaya nman lahat, diba??? Hay,,, ka-immaturan ko tlga. That’s what I am before, imprudent and foolish about how things work. Not yet abreast of the real world. But now, the point turns and I come to realize the good things that change has done to me. Reading my past entries, you can see bitter thoughts running to and fro my head. Entries that reflect how hard it is for me to live my life without him. Gosh,,, nasaktan nya tlga ako. But that’s the reason why I am happy right now. The change that leads to the betterment of my life.
According to Maslow’s all-famous hierarchy of needs, after we’ve come to fulfill our physiological (basic – food, water, clothing, etc.) needs, safety and security needs, love and belongingness needs, and self-esteem needs, the only thing that were waiting for is the point where we are able to reach the highest potential our life can ever achieve… SELF-REALIZATION. I’m not saying that I am finally at that point in time, but the feeling I’m having is just like the feeling of being there.
Some things are meant to happen…
The thing that happened between my ex-boyfriend and I were written in the stars. God intends to make me suffer, in order for me to learn something from him. I may have cried so many tears, but those tears are worthy not for him, but for the result that had made me s stronger individual. I know you’re wondering what happen that made me so inspired to write... What is it that Indira realized?
Its not important to know the reason why I am writing now,,, hindi na kailangan yon. (Loud sigh…) Ang sarap ng feeling! Ang gaan-gaan ng loob ko. After seeing Nico again and after hearing news about his life right now, bigla na lang gumaan ang loob ko. Hindi ko nga alam kung baket eh,,, siguro dahil mei napatunayan ako.
The process of letting go…
My advice to everyone, (1) Never stop thinking about that person, even if it’s tormenting every part of you. Because when you don’t, that’s the time your ghost from the past comes hunting you again. Aba,,, masakit ata yan! That happens to me most of the time, and the end-product,,, bucket of tears falling from my eyes. This is what I call AFTERSHOCK. Just when you thought you’ve moved on,,, malalaman mo na lang na hindi pa pala. (2) Talk to someone or at least find some way to release the anger in you. Why do we have to do that? Simply to express our feelings. There are several ways to express what it is that’s hurting you or just holding you back. You can express it through the traditional way of writing or you can release it using the modern way like drinking (alcohol ah..). I’m not advising you to get late or become drunk, ok. Always’ remember: IN MODERATION. (3) Make-over. I’m not just talking about the superficial makeover where you have to spend so much money from your allowance, but also the spiritual makeover. This is what I call STARTING OVER. (4) Divert your attention. Make yourself busy by doing things you usually enjoy. Be the fun-loving girl that you are. It will not only make you happy but it will also make you look younger and prettier.
Life is a journey… Learn to move on. It’s not the end of the world. ‘Till next time.
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